Nicole Horton had a good life before she – finally – indulged her childhood dream of owning a horse 11 years ago.
But it didn’t compare to the quality of her life now, all thanks to what her now three horses have taught her.
“I used to be a workaholic and I still work a lot and enjoy what I do,” Nicole explained. “I’m a consultant and most of my clients have some sort of distress they need help through. It’s stressful, with a lot of deadlines, and I used to let that stress really get to me.”
“Once I got indoctrinated to what it means to be a horse person, I realized you can’t show up everyday tense, angry or frustrated and think it’s going to work out well. Horses have given me so much.”
Through 11 years and three horses, Nicole has had a disproportionate number of injuries and rehabs to help her main competition horse through. Yet, those periods have only intensified her love and understanding for her horses and for the sport.
A Veteran Volunteer
Volunteering quickly became a part of Nicole’s horsey life – even when she was competing and especially when she couldn’t. “I didn’t want to get disconnected from the sport and I still had friends that were competing. I will always keep volunteering. It’s important to give something back.”
Nicole lives in the Los Angeles area’s Topanga Canyon. It’s a 2.5-hour drive to Galway Downs, even without traffic. Given the distance, she usually gives one full day. When the report time for those days is 8 a.m., rather than 6 or 6:30 a.m., that’s a treat, but she shows up whatever the schedule.
Volunteering has enhanced Nicole’s equestrian life through all its phases. “When I first started it was a good reinforcement of what I was learning, plus you learn a lot about the rules.”
She’s a veteran now with assignments that make use of that experience. At the International Horse Trials in late March, Nicole jump judged the first and second fences for all of Friday’s cross-country divisions. From her post under a blooming cherry tree, she also backed up the start box timer.
“I go wherever the volunteer coordinators need me,” Nicole says. “But they know me now and they usually wind up giving me some extra things to do.”
She especially loves watching the experienced riders go around on inexperienced horses. “You never quite know what the horses are thinking as they are learning the ropes, and I find that fascinating.”
Among the professionals, Taren Hoffos is a favorite. “I never expect any chit chat from the riders during their course walk, but I am pretty sure that every time Taren has walked by, she says ‘thank you.’ It’s one of those moments you don’t expect, but it’s always nice and it’s a little extra motivation.”
Nicole hopes to eventually get back out on cross-country herself with the youngest of her three horses.
From 0 to 60 mph…
All her life, Nicole thought about, dreamed of and fantasized about riding. As a kid, she “devoured” every horse book. Through adulthood, she saw the touring Lippizans, Cavalia and the Longines Jumping shows when they came to town. She sought trail rides wherever she traveled. The flame burned bright.
A friend suggested Nicole call Mill Creek Equestrian Center and she did.
“They laughed at me because I asked them to schedule a lesson for me every day of the entire week,” Nicole recalls. “They said, ‘Are you sure?’ I said, ‘Yes, absolutely’ and I knew the first day – even though you don’t really do anything on the first lesson – that I would never look back.”
Which was true.
She immediately set a goal of owning a horse within her first year. And that was Stella, an Off-The-Track-Thoroughbred with some eventing experience. “She was a little nutty and had some physical things going on that we didn’t know about at the time. Maybe not the best first horse…
“But I learned so much from her – about staying on, about not freaking out if she was running around. And despite all that, it was the best thing for me. It taught me to live in that moment. Before that, I always had work stuff going on in the back of my mind, but that’s not a good idea to be thinking about a work project when you’re sitting on a 1,200-pound horse.”
Stella got Nicole started with the basics in eventing. At 20, she is happily retired and visited almost daily by Nicole.
Here Comes Hope
Next came Hope, who was intended to become Nicole’s upper-level horse but whose injuries and rehabs redirected that plan. “It was another learning experience,” Nicole reflects. Hope’s initial injury required a 12-month rehab, which Nicole managed on her own. That was going well until the very end, when she sustained another injury – this time a suspensory – that required another year of rehab.
At that juncture, Nicole opted to use some of that time to breed Hope. The result is Romy, sired by the jumper stallion, Billy Mexico. She will turn 3 in June and is intended to be Nicole’s future eventing star.
Stella and Hope live at Brookview Ranch in Agoura Hills and Romy is growing up in pastures in Ventura County’s Somis.
Backward, Forward, Sideways…
Even without the injuries, Nicole and Hope’s journey has been a challenge many would not describe positively.
“She didn’t initially take to me as a person in charge,” Nicole recalls. “She is willful and stubborn and flighty. But I love that horse more than I can say. Our first three years together, we went backward, forward, sideways and finally were hitting our stride toward the end.”
The next five years, during rehab periods as well as Hope’s motherhood, the two “spent a lot of time in very close quarters. She’s now where she’ll lay her head in my lap. I’m her pal and she’ll do anything for me. I love that about her.”
Hope and Nicole now work on dressage with Jane Arrasmith, and on jumping with Allyson Hartenburg. Eventing won’t be on their agenda again, but Nicole is thrilled to be back in the saddle and making progress with the mare.
“Some people are lucky in that their horses just keep trucking along,” she notes. That hasn’t been Nicole’s path yet, but “For me, it’s just been fantastic.”
And the sport is lucky to have a participant committed to volunteering as a critical part of life with horses.